Don’t love me anymore

A sweet,  cute love story,
Must come to an end –

You have been the perfect gentleman, 
Charmed your way through and got my heart

Yet you didn’t see the hole;
The lagging heart beat, you didn’t hear.

Now,  my dear I ask you
Leave me hear and move on,

I can never give you much,
Nor the happiness you deserve.

I’m weak,  but not a tear will I shed While I let you go,

Darling, you were never my choice of love
For you I had only revenge secured,

Like sweet nectar your love enchanted me
Blissful I was,  when I realized my mistake,

So I beg you forget me;
No,  I cannot face you,  not anymore

I  do love you now, but you
Please don’t love me anymore.

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©Paramita

Forever Yours

Love no more than a starters word
Was never your choice  of word,

Neither were flowers nor teddies
Your choice of gift.

The only gift from you was a ring –
It sealed our fate forever.

There are no sweet talk between us
Yet a hint of love flows in the air

Romance is a far edged story you wouldn’t listen
Our growing closeness,  will change that story.

Flattering will never be your style,
Will that stop me from loving you?

Never did I think,  will I fall for a man so rugged –
Life has its own way to prove us wrong,

I know not when you’ll confess your love for me
But I cannot delay it any longer;

I cannot stay apart from you
And wanna be yours,  forever yours.

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©Paramita

Harappa’s lost seal-the uneven match

I am sorry to have broken my promise again and not being able to post it yesterday. If anyone is interested in reading the Introduction of this series they’ll find it here

DISCLAIMER: The characters and incidents in thia story are fictious with no resemblance to real personalities.
Chapter 2
He did know it would be difficult to find her but to what level he was not sure, the search party has been assigned the task of summoning her yet she was not found. She belonged to the warrior class and after separating from him the last he heard about her was she went out of the fortified city near the Sumer borders and was assigned a higher post to lash the formers out.
He still remembers how unhappy his father had been when he put forwarded his wish to marry her,  nor was his mother too happy about this union. He could guess his father’s reasons, the man disliked women of lower ground and if his son was set to marry a woman of warrior class that would be the most embarrassing situation for him. Yet he agreed, being the elder some of a Parama Chandrayu Chahel had the right to choose his wife. But he couldn’t understand his mother’s aggressive behavior towards his wife. The former was the only lady from the family who adored the girl and now suddenly she turned against her. It was not until his was in his death bed,  that he came to know her reasons “She’s your step -mother “, his father barely whispered “father you should rest now “, he had said to which the old man lightly chuckled and said “I’ll rest from tonight, listen to me now;  your mother wanted Swahayne for her own son,  your  younger brother Adrij,  but when she saw that instead of Her son,  Swahayne hot married to you she couldn’t let both of you be together “. That night true to his words his father left this world for heavenly abode.

What none of them knew and perhaps will never come to know,  Swahayne herself was against this union

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He was about to be the future leader when he turned twenty-five,  and she had to spend her life fighting battles. He had known her since she was a kid,  she was Adrij’s closest friend and has been visiting their mansion for a long time. Chahel was in love with her since then. He would allow her to try out various mischievous activities on him. Thinking of those memories brought an enigmatic smile on his face. She slowly grew up to be a beautiful lady and a fiery one at that.

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He knew she would be just when she returned from her Pratyakshin. But when he proposed her she declined his proposal. Later he with the help of his brother convinced her to protect him, from a pretencious problem,  which was possible only through marriage.

The seals were a totally different story,  she knew their importance and would never break the family trichome seals  intentionally,  even more so steal the most precious Kritaksh seal, because she would already be gone by then.

“Parama we found her, ” one of his guards informed him.Silently relieved at the news he followed them.
TERMINOLOGY
Parama – leader or would be leader.
Chandrayu – surname of a clan
Pratyakshin – training for warrior class women which usually started at the age of ten and continued for eight years.
Kritaksh – a highly valued seal containing scripture written by ancestors of the Chandrayu.

©Paramita

Trust a building block for relationship

For any relationship to prolong the must trust each other same is the case for a romantic relationship.

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While building a relationship it is always asked that both the partners should be true to each other and this can only bring trust in their lives. A little lie may lead to a heap of lies further breaking the relation. For a heart broken person its very difficult to overcome their lovelorn lives and trust someone else.
For them it is advised every person is not same, your new partner may not have the same likes and dislike as the older, there may be difference in their character so just try to keep an open mind for them. The ones who choose to be their partners should be prepared for every ball they throw in your because if you truly love them you’ll want to be with them forever. Your partner may turn hysterical at times or be suspicious in your conduct with your friends of opposite sex. Just make them understand that it is them who you love not your friend.
Love them a lot, never let them feel lonely. Best of luck.

Poetry Time Friday #4

Today the poem that we will be discussing here was written by Robert Browning. Browning was born in Walwarth in the parish of Camberwell Surrey,  South London.  He was from a very wealthy family and his father had huge collection of books in his personal library, so it can be said that he had
significant literary resources.
Robert’s inspiration for romantic poems was his wife Elizabeth B. Browning. She was a poet herself.  She had written a great deal of romantic poems herself and was also the composer of Aurora Leigh. She was six years his senior yet their love lasted for lifetime. 
The Meeting at Night was written by Robert Browning while courting Elizabeth in 1845 and later they eloped in 1846 because her father was against their marriage.

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The poem is very colorful and it also consists of imageries. When the poet speaks of Grey Sea,  Black Land or yellow half moon he is motioning us towards a colorful landscape.  ” Miles of warm sea scented beach ” or “fiery ringlets from their sleep ” are imageries.  The poem also consists of a rhyming scheme of abccba. Check out the last word of first and last line of any stanza and then the last word of second and fifth line, finally that of third and fourth line. All these words rhyme with each other.
In the first stanza the poet describes the landscape near a beach on a half moon night and the way the waves leap at each other helps his ship to reach his destination faster.
In the second stanza he explained the way he crossed the beach and fields to reach his lover’s farm. After having reached there he lightly tapped on her window pane and then may be she heard him because he immediately heard a screeching sound. Then a lamp was lit with a match stick.
There was silence everywhere. Though meeting his lover brought him some joy,  he was afraid,  perhaps of being watched by someone. But the fear couldn’t hold its place because they were too much happy to meet each other finally.

Poetry Time Friday# 2

Today we are going to discuss the poem A Thing Of Beauty by John Keats. Keats was a romantic poet,  his poems were based on romance. A Thing Of Beauty is a poem from Endymion. To understand the poets thoughts in this poem we should first know about his life. Keats was a romantic person in nature and his love interest had been Fanny Brawn. If you think they had a happily ever after thing then you’re wrong. Though they got engaged but marriage was not possible because Keats died too early of Tuberculosis and a few years later Fanny got married  and latter Keats’s letters to Fanny were published. image In this poem the poet tries to bring out the beauty in everything. We do know beauty lies in the eyes of the viewer so if a thing is beautiful for us,  it may not be beautiful for others. But there is beauty everywhere waiting to be discovered. When he says

A thing of beauty is joy forever

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he means it’s eternal beauty. A beautiful always provides comfort to Our eyes and a horrid thing may turn us sick. Friends I told you how much I could. Keats was a great poet and discussing his poems is just like breaking ones own heads. So if you have anything to say regarding this pass on your comments.

Poetry time Friday #1

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Well this one was for a surprise. From now onwards, Fridays would be days for poetry discussion.
I am not a critique which is known to all of you. But what I’ll really do here is try to pick out a few characteristics of the poem and try to discuss it with you.
People nowadays are more prone to reading prose than poetry( one of them being myself ). So

due to that writers even if they have a talent in writing poetry they choose prose instead of that only a few brave soldiers try their mighty pens in poetry.

 
In this poetry section I’ll try to cover up collections of poems ( only in languages which I can understand ).
Today I chose to discuss the poem At Last by Elizabeth Akers Allen.

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I can’t say that I’ve read this poem a lot but I did read it twice because it was worth noticing. Though I’m not much fond of poetry,  yet this one found a connection to my heart.Perhaps the words used here were understandable. I must say that I dont have a huge collection of vocabulary and whenever I’m studying a piece if I have to look up the dictionary within break of 10 seconds, then I prefer to study something else instead of that.

About the poem:
The rhyme and rhythm of the poem brings a lyrical sense to it. It starts with brightness, optimism when the lovers are finally united. Though they have grown old still they loved each other and nothing could stop them from being united. There is a popular belief where it is said that if you truly love someone then not even time can set you apart and this belief has been reflected in this poem.
In a romantic sense the lovers as always unite at the end, no matter how much pain they have to endure. Otherwise that’s not the end of the story and the story would be more of a love story than of romance genre,well in this case its a poem.
REMEMBER its a discussion and
A discussion is never one sided. So I would like my readers to focus on points which I haven’t discussed here and also counteract my thoughts if you want.

7 ways to show her your love

Don’t know whether she will accept this or not. Can’t she at least tell me that she needs a gift

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For those who have their attitude pitched up like this. Be ready to keep your status single for a lifetime because if you want someone to love you, you’ll have to love her back. And just saying I love you sometimes doesn’t help your relationship. For that you’ll have to work a little harder. I know that you cannot read her mind and neither you are a fantasy hero where the prince charming sweeped the princess off her feet and kissed her right there.It’s real life where we deal with Real people and their emotions. IF a girl loves a boy then she makes way for her into her life and same is the case with a boy. But the way you do it for her and she does it for affects your relationship in a positive or negative way. For a relationship to last long you have to do a few things her way and she has to a few things your way.
Here I have provided 7 ways through which you can make her feel your love:
1. Surprise –Try to surprise your love interest whenever possible. Girls love surprises and it helps in keeping your relationship evergreen.

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2.Make her a part of your life – Try to include her in your regular activities or other miscellaneous ones. Make her a part of your adventures, parties as well as grievance. Don’t just shut her otherwise your relationship may fall a victim to her wrath.

3.Be with her – There may be a situation when she says that she doesn’t want you or need you,  then dont leave her just like that to fight her battle alone.Give her the most needed push and then you’ll see the way she blows you out,  but she’ll surely share the issue with you and if all this doesn’t work then allot her some time when she can think clearly.  Don’t forget that she loves you and you felt it too.

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4. Spend your time with her- Try to spend as much as possible time with her.You may shower with expensive gifts but that would be incomparable to the time you share with her.

5.Always respond to her- If you couldn’t check her on time, then at least make an effort to contact her as soon as possible. This will make her feel the way you are concerned for her.

6.Faith – Trust, believe,  faith, love these are interrelated words .All these values are very important for any relationship. If any of these is lost then your relationship may also take the route to he’ll.

7. Finally I would say love her as much as you want. Love can never be measured. So don’t love her more or less just love her forever.

These advices or methods whatever you call them can be followed only to a certain extent.Its not necessary for you to go through all of them at once. She might simply be happy with a little surprise or just by feeling your trust for her or might not be happy at all. Those who are never happy should be left aside in the long run. Well the most important and least expensive thing that you can do is try to be happy so that she’ll be happy. My friends and followers this is my first post after the blogs reformation I would definitely like to hear from you about this post.

Change of title

All of you must have been wondering why I changed the title of my blog from “India and Indians” to “Seeking Romance”. I can give you two reasons for that –
We should always do things which we love to do.Recently I discovered that I love writing about romance much more than writing about my country.This is the first reason and the second one is that I started facing writer’s block .With that theme I couldn’t get any further, didn’t feel passionate for it.
Now you may think that if I lost the passion with my previous title then it is possible to lose it again. And I have to say that you are right. Very few things and people are static in this world and I’m definitely not one of them. To assure you I can say that whatever content I chose you’ll be happy to read it . People followed my blog because they had faith in me.
Moving in a straight path towards a definite goal is awesome but don’t you think its a bit regular. What if we choose a goal and then move along a route which is not quite known, something which has hidden surprises.  Surprises may lead to challenges. And I won’t be wrong if I say that most of you out here specially the bloggers like challenges because writing a blog itself is a challenge.

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Next lets move towards the contents that the reformed blog will cover for two months –

JUNESince its the month of reformation .The contents will be advices for lovers ( 7 ways to show her your love, Ways to win your love back, How to behave on your first date)
JULYDiscussion on various characters of romance novels.

This was all about the questionnaire and reasoning.I tried to give you my reasons because as readers or followers you deserve it first. If you have any more queries then,  please put them up I’ll try to answer all of them. There’s one more thing if any one of you had gone through such reformation as mine then, I would like to hear it from you.