7 things to be kept on mind for your first date?

Your behavior on the first date helps in deciding the span of your relationship. If you behave remarkably well then the first may turn into second -third and many more dates. But if you tried something abusive then your first date may turn into a horrid dream .And this is not only about dates because our behavior showcases our character wherever we go. Since the first impression is the last impression so we would obviously want to be on our best on our first date.
Below I’ve mentioned a few things for girls to keep in mind on their first date. Before getting into that I must mention that the advises given here are for people looking forward to serious relationships not casual hookups.
1.Dressing – Your dressing style says a lot about your character. So for the first date you wear something which is not too revealing, yet elegant because girl you are going for a date, not to get laid. Let your hair be done by some stylist or if you can do it on your own its well and good.

2.Talk Casual – Keep the conversation mostly into topics of your comfort zone. That would help you maintain pace with him, otherwise you would have to sit there like a bimbo. I don’t think you would want him doubting your intellect.

3.Don’t be a braggart –Don’t be all I , me and myself. Allow him to speak,  try to know his likes and dislikes this will make him think that you generously care for him.

4.Kissing -Kissing the love partner has turned into a tradition of the society but you,  will not let him do that. I try to maintain a 3-dates rule, some of us may have 2-dates but don’t and I mean Don’t let him kiss you on the first date. This will make him feel that you are too easy.


5.Dont be too cold –You might be thinking that should I let him hold me or not? My answer to this is yes let him hold your hand. Otherwise he may feel you’re too cold which is not good either.


6.Bills – You’re On a date and you don’t eat anything that’s quite rare.

So, when you’re done munching your favorite items, don’t go all feminist and pay the bill. If you do that you’ll shoot straight through his male ego and we don’t want that happening do we? So let him pay the first and then you can give him a treat on your second or third date, of course if you continue,  that is.

7. Farewell. –Now,  be a good girl and let him drop you to your home. If he is a gentleman he’ll surely do that and not leave you standing there outside the restaurant or diner or wherever you went. And as a reward of his gentlemanly behavior you may give him a peck on the cheek.

Change of title

All of you must have been wondering why I changed the title of my blog from “India and Indians” to “Seeking Romance”. I can give you two reasons for that –
We should always do things which we love to do.Recently I discovered that I love writing about romance much more than writing about my country.This is the first reason and the second one is that I started facing writer’s block .With that theme I couldn’t get any further, didn’t feel passionate for it.
Now you may think that if I lost the passion with my previous title then it is possible to lose it again. And I have to say that you are right. Very few things and people are static in this world and I’m definitely not one of them. To assure you I can say that whatever content I chose you’ll be happy to read it . People followed my blog because they had faith in me.
Moving in a straight path towards a definite goal is awesome but don’t you think its a bit regular. What if we choose a goal and then move along a route which is not quite known, something which has hidden surprises.  Surprises may lead to challenges. And I won’t be wrong if I say that most of you out here specially the bloggers like challenges because writing a blog itself is a challenge.


Next lets move towards the contents that the reformed blog will cover for two months –

JUNESince its the month of reformation .The contents will be advices for lovers ( 7 ways to show her your love, Ways to win your love back, How to behave on your first date)
JULYDiscussion on various characters of romance novels.

This was all about the questionnaire and reasoning.I tried to give you my reasons because as readers or followers you deserve it first. If you have any more queries then,  please put them up I’ll try to answer all of them. There’s one more thing if any one of you had gone through such reformation as mine then, I would like to hear it from you.