Living alone , it is not difficult. The more we think about it , it starts making some sense.
When we live with anybody , whether it be our parents or partner or friends. Specifically for partners or friends we go into it without any expectations. Remembering the quote, never expect anything from anyone is not really easy when you are far into the relation. When you want them to put up equivalent effort as yours, but you know in the back of your mind ; that is not possible. They really care for you in their own way, but they are not you, so don’t expect them to do something you would have done. The other person is a different person for a reason, so he or she might have different way of working things out. What we must do , is let things go with the flow sometimes when situation allows. Keep our expectations null.
Well this is the time of the year again, when we leave our comfort zone of being isolated from those relatives and friends with whom we maintain almost ZERO level contact throughout the year and must wish them new year greetings. Now -a-days almost all of us are busy bodies and somehow these festivals or celebratory moments bring us closer.
Maintaining kinship or relationship with our relatives, is getting far more difficult everyday, because we really don’t care what’s going on in their lives. We just want to know what’s going on in our lives. Shock of the year!!!
I don’t think so, because we are just I, me and myself. No endearments, no calls from cousins. But should these stop us from greeting, remembering them? No, definitely not. At least for a day or two you can be the greater person and help them remember you. Be the better person and remind them you are there, even if they left any thought of you far behind. Wish them, greet them, show you them you care. Because love and care is what we can give people to at least make them happy for a day.
Happy New Year 2019 to all of you.
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