In a country which is a hub of various religions you would be surprised to know that there are very few families which accepts such relations. Falling in love is not the only thing necessary for a relationship running. Being always the caring ones, we Indians are bound to think of our society’s honour. If we fall in love with a person who doesn’t belong to our religion, we are immediately advised to terminate that or are forced to elope, that is if we agree towards a marriage.
Just because we have different culture or religion doesn’t make it right to prohibit a relationship between the different groups of people. Here I am talking about the common people not of the elite society. Our people can be considered ignorant but this ignorance sometimes turns violent and scenes from Romeo and Juliet come out live. There had been many such cases in the past. Now, don’t we always say that we shouldn’t dig out the past, even in the present century the situations haven’t developed much. Let’s says I am a Hindu girlfriend and fell in love with a Christian boy, when I introduce him to my family it will take all their strength not to throw both of us out of the house. This doesn’t mean that they will agree instead all my connections to the outer world may be cut off and whenever I go to college or somewhere else, my brother or some other relative will accompany there to fight him off.
My question to you is if this thing is such a taboo then why do you allow them to get acquainted with us? If you care about me then do care for him as well for he is hurting too.
Let’s says I am a Hindu girlfriend and fell in love with a Christian boy, when I introduce him to my family it will take all their strength not to throw both of us out of the house. – I feel sad for this.
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It really happens more between a muslim and hindu lover
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You ask very poignant questions and the answer is we are all the same, no one is better or worse than the other, maybe someday everyone will figure that out!! Great post!!! I have nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award, here’s the link https://onceuponahotflash.wordpress.com/2015/08/15/blogger-recognition-award/ Congratulations!!!
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Thanks Deb for your encouragement and for thinking me worthy enough to be nominated
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You’re so welcome and you are most worthy!! 🙂
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Thanks so much
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Interesting piece of writing, very personal and heartfelt. Nicely presented blog and very well organised 🙂
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Thanks Collete , its personal enough because every moment I see the chaos I can relate it to myself. Though mine is not inter-religious still somewhat similar
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it’s a sad reality of Indian society Mello. During my college days I had to help elope my friend who married a girl from Brahmin cast while he was from a so called lower caste. It was a great melodrama. You know they were both Hindu and yet.
Nice post 🙂
Anand
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I have seen these kind of romances as well
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Yes yes 🙂 Goes to show how difficult it actually is for inter-religious one 🙂
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I feel for any and everyone who cannot have the freedom to love their soulmate. It occurs even in our culture, but to a much lesser degree.
☕️❤️
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Its a very bad situation very u either have to watch ur soulmate grw old without u or get married to someone else
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